Maggie
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Poruka: 2736
Location: daleko
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evo ti jedno isjecka o bipolarnim i lazima, prevescu ti na dnu
There are so many times when someone we care about who is bipolar looks us straight in the eye and tells us a lie with such a sincere expression that we are absolutely convinced they are telling the truth. In fact, even though we know they've lied many times in the past, we feel so bad about doubting them that we get sucked in again and tell ourselves that it's not fair to withhold our trust and we are duped one more time.
Why do so many people who have bipolar disorder tell lies over and over again, even when it isn't necessary? It seems to be a component of their illness that is particularly maddening. Although it sometimes serves an obvious purpose - it keeps them (at least temporarily) out of trouble when they realize they'd created a problem - at other times they lie just for the sake of lying. Why?
Toliko puta se desi da nas neko ko boluje od bipolarne depresije pogleda direktno u oci i kaze nam laz sa tako iskrenim pogledom, da smo uvjereni da nam govore istinu. u stvari, iako znamo da su nam lagali mnogo puta u proslosi, osjecamo se sugavo jer smo u nedoumici, i na taj nacin, nas uvuku u price jos jednom i mi kazemo sebi da nije fer da im ne damo povjerenje i ponovo nas zeznu.
Zasto toliko mnogo ljudi koji imaju bipolarnu bolest glazu iznova i iznova, cak i kad nije potrebno? Izgleda da je laz jedan dio njihove bolesti koji je posebno izludjujuci. Iako se ponekad cini da njihova laz ima razlog, kao na primjer, da svale problem koji su sreairali na nekog drugog, u drugim situacijama lazu, samo da bi slagali. Zasto?
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